Being in a healthy relationship doesn’t mean losing yourself or your happiness. There are many ways to show your man you love him, but never do these six things below for a guy.
Nothing beats the feeling of falling in love and when romance blossoms, it’s easy to forget everything and everyone else. Healthy relationships are as fun even when the fuzzy feeling fizzles out. It’s important to work on your relationship to make it work, but never keep a relationship alive at your expense and values. These are the things I have learned to never do for a guy, from my experience:
Never keep a guy who doesn’t love you: Not only is he wasting your time but he is taxing your happiness and sense of worth. If he doesn’t put in as much effort you invest in to make the relationship work, tell him boy bye.
Never change who you are: If he tries to change you by comparing you to his exes or making you feel guilty for who you are, walk away and don’t look back.
Don’t neglect your friends and family for him: Life happened before he came into your life, don’t let it stop or evolve around him. Believe me, nothing is as lonely or as depressing as allowing him to ostracise you from your loved ones. If he really loves you he will accept the people who have been in your life all along.
Never ignore your intuition: This can never be stressed enough. If you get that nagging feeling that your relationship is not working out, then it probably isn’t. Don’t invest in something is only wasting your time.
Don’t stop pursuing your dreams: If your guy makes you choose between your career dreams and him, I suggest you choose your dreams. Rather be with someone who will be your cheerleader instead of adding to your headache.
Never fund his lifestyle: So, your guy is studying but you have never seen his books, or he is always asking you for money to go to ‘job interviews’. If you find yourself being an ATM that always funds his lifestyle, stop wasting your money and start investing it in worthwhile savings policies.
What will you not do for your boyfriend?