There is an alluring power that confident people have, and the best part of it is that you can be confident too. Take inspiration from what confident women do daily.
Confidence is a great asset to have. What sets confident people apart is that they have a positive energy that draws others to them. At the opposite pole is arrogance. It’s important to identify that fine line because it can make or break your career or relationships with family, friends and even partner. Confidence is simply being content with yourself, being comfortable in your own skin, accepting your flaws and loving who you are. Every level in your life needs some form of confidence to accomplish your goal, whether it’s nailing that job interview, approaching your potential partner, proposing a business deal or partaking in discussion panels. With practice you can be that confident magnet that attracts positive people and events in your life. This is what confident people do:
- Looks matter: the saying, ‘looking good makes you feel good’ is so true. Dressing the way you want to be perceived is an important communication tool. Put in a little effort in being presentable and see if it does not make a difference.
- They stick to their lane: Guys, life is a journey and not a marathon. Never make the habit of using other people’s success and especially IG accounts as a yardstick to measure your success. Seasons change, and yours to shine is coming.
- They don’t take things personally: Someone once said if you don’t know people personally, don’t take it personal. But I think you should extend it further and say don’t take anything personally, especially if you know your critiques. Never allow anyone, whether they are your friends or strangers to discourage you from the life you are capable of living and the dreams you are chasing.
- They uplift others: Putting other people down while climbing up any ladder (corporate or business) is not on. Being a gateway or light to someone’s success does not close yours or dim your light. Candles (that light other candles) are a great example to the last point I made.
What other traits do confident people have?